Are You Faking It On The Outside, But Dying on the Inside? Counseling Can Help.
People looking at you from the outside might think you have it all… a family, a home, a career, and yet on the inside you are dying a slow death. If anyone really knew you they would see that you are “completely faking it.” Your sex life is lifeless; you hate your job; so you isolate, watch too much TV, look at porn and drink more than you should. Perhaps you have even have had an affair (or just thought about it). You do whatever it takes to distract you from that inner-pain because at a core level, you are terrified of being found out….So you just go on pretending like everything is just fine…until you explode. If this is you, counseling can help.
If this sounds like you, guess what? You’re not alone, and there is hope. It is possible to become a better person, a better parent, and to like even who you see in the mirror.
Hi, my name is Chuck Chapman.I am a counselor working with people just like you in Portland Oregon and the surrounding areas. I work with men and women, helping them find ways to shed the guilt and shame and overcome feelings of anxiety and depression that is holding them back.
Finding the right counselor is important; seeing a counselor can feel daunting because exposed emotions can be painful. We work together to create a safe space where you can share what’s going on without feeling judged or shamed. We collaborate to develop a plan that works for you. Whether you’re dealing with depression, anxiety, grief, addiction or communicating with your partner, seeing a counselor can be a powerful way to explore and find solutions for overcoming barriers that keep you stuck. I’m passionate about what I do because seeing people grow, change and live from a place of authenticity is amazingly gratifying. My hope is that you walk away from the counseling experience with tools that will help you have a better life.
My sole purpose and hopeful intentions in counseling are to contribute toward helping people live better lives.
You don’t have to wait one more day; give me a call at 503-804-4133 and let’s get you back on track. I am happy to provide you with counseling at my office in South East Portland. I am also able to provide Teletherapy over a secured video chat via computer, smartphone or iPad. Providing Counseling in Portland Oregon and the surrounding areas. Get the counseling you need that brings you together and makes your life better.
I am a licensed professional counselor who serves Portland and the surrounding areas. I wasn’t always a counselor. In fact several years ago I found myself in a dark place full of pain.I had built a house of cards that quickly fell apart and when I looked in the mirror I loathed the guy looking back at me.I was hiding my true self from the people who love me, I felt alone, I felt afraid, and I felt like a fake.
Through my own therapy and recovery, I found there were reasons behind my behaviors. I learned ways to overcome my character flaws, and slowly I began to forgive myself and even came to the point where I liked who I had become. This experience was a gift and I dedicated myself to helping others and passing that gift on. My hopeful intent is to help people find freedom from guilt and shame and live from a place of authenticity and truth.
Today my life is amazing! I found the love and acceptance that I had longed for all my life. I am truly grateful to be living my dream and hope to help others come to the same place.
So here are some professional details about me….
I hold a B.S. Human Development from Warner Pacific College
I also hold an M.A. in Counseling Psychology from George Fox University
I am a certified “Nice Guy” recovery coach
I am currently registered with the Oregon Board of Licensed Professional Counselors and Therapists and recognized as a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) and a Nationally Certified Counselor (NCC) and a member of the American Counselor Association.
Give me a call now and let’s get your life back on track: 503-804-4133
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Counseling for Men
You know that feeling when you’re driving along and the check engine light comes on? You understand that something is wrong, but you might need someone to give you a little direction as to how to solve the problem. Going to see a counselor is kind of like taking your car to a mechanic.
The truth is that sometimes being a man is difficult…I know, I am one. As men, we often struggle with our confidence especially when it comes to things like being in a relationship, talking about money and yes….even sex. There’s often an unspoken assertion that we are just supposed to know how to fix these things so we end up shutting down and living a life of “quiet desperation”. That’s why I have uniquely designed counseling for men as a way to learn the tools necessary to get unstuck. This isn’t a touchy-feely approach where we sit around and sing campfire songs. Instead, we get under the hood, dig around and find practical solutions.
Here are just a few things that men typically work on:
: : A general sense of frustration with life and relationships
: : Help being a better dad
: : Learning to be a better communicator
: : Work and career issues
: : Help with talking to your spouse/partner about sexuality and sexual needs
: : Spiritual Abuse Recovery
: : Addictions to porn or substances
: : Anger Management
While these are just some of the areas counseling can help you with, Counseling can help you get back on the road and living out of your full potential.
Counseling For Women
He drives you nuts! You don’t feel like you are living with a partner, but rather a roommate, or worse another child. You might be experiencing
depression or anxiety as a result of your relationship or perhaps it’s past hurts or trauma that is getting in your way. Counseling for women is designed to find the block that holds you back as a woman, get to the root of your issues and learn to live to accept life on life’s terms. Women’s counseling can help you with many areas such as:
:: Depression and anxiety
:: Difficulty with sexuality and talking about sex
:: Being in a relationship with an addict
:: Trauma from sexual abuse and PTSD
These are just some of the areas counseling can help you with.No need to suffer a moment longer. Contact me today and let’s get you back on track to living a life of joy and fulfillment.
Teletherapy is a great way to get the benefits of counseling without having to leave your home or office. Our counseling takes place over your computer, laptop, tablet or smartphone and is secure, private and effective. This is great for doing counseling during a lunch break at work if you don’t want to fight traffic or trapped inside on a snow day. It also is great if you are located outside the Greater Portland area but still live in Oregon. If teletherapy sounds like something you would be interested in, lets set up an appointment and try it out. Teletherapy is covered by most insurance companies.
Before we begin it’s important to understand my billing procedures and insurance verification.
If you wish to use your insurance we will need to determine your coverage prior to your first visit. You may be required to pay a co-pay at the time of service. You may also opt to not use insurance. If this is the case, payment is to be made in full at the time of service. If we are unable to determine your insurance prior to our first appointment, payment must be made in full at the time of service and you will need to work directly with your insurance provider to receive reimbursement.
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I am in-network with the following insurance companies:
Blue Cross Blue Shield
If you have a different insurance company that listed above, such as Providence, United Health, MHN, Family Care or Moda, you can likely still use your insurance. Please call me at 503-804-4133 to see what your insurance will cover
RATES ARE AS FOLLOWS
Individual Sessions: First session intake and evaluation: $150
Individual counseling and psychotherapy for 60 minutes: $130
Couples Counseling: I am no longer taking couples or families.
CANCELLATION AND NO SHOW POLICY:
I need to talk to you about my cancellation and no-show policy. I want to make sure that there’s no miscommunication about it, and that you understand it and agree to it 100%. I want you to know that my cancellation policy is not a penalty or punishment. Ninety-nine point nine percent of my clients understand this. Very rarely, I’ll have a client who will feel that he or she is being punished when I charge them a late cancellation fee. I want to make sure that you don’t feel this way if someday you miss an appointment.
Truth be told, if you are in counseling long enough, at some point you might forget about an appointment, or something will come up in your schedule that will result in you missing an appointment. Maybe you’ll need to work late, maybe you can’t find a babysitter or your car will break down, or something unavoidable will come up. A canceled appointment delays our work. When you must cancel, please give me at least 24 hours notice. I am rarely able to fill a canceled session unless I know at least 24 hours in advance. If you are unable to provide at least 24 hours notice when you cancel, you will be charged a $130 cancellation fee unless I am able to fill it with another client.
I’m never upset with clients when they miss an appointment. I know that’s life. In return, my clients understand that scheduling an appointment with me is like buying tickets to an event. If you miss the event, it doesn’t matter why you missed it, or even if it was your first time, you can’t turn in your tickets for a refund.
For this reason, my policy requires that I keep your credit card on file and will charge your card $130 on the date of our scheduled appointment date.
Two “No Call, No Show” will result in termination of our treatment.
Your insurance company will not cover your late cancellation or no show.